The Secret of Contact After 10 PM: The Magic of Emotional Time

After the day’s work is done and the boundary between reason and emotion becomes blurred, it’s after 10 PM. According to an analysis of messenger data, 3 KakaoTalk messages exchanged during the quiet late-night hours have a much more critical impact on relationship development than 10 KakaoTalk messages during the daytime.

1. Dawn Sensibility and Melatonin

As the sun sets and the night deepens, the level of melatonin in the human brain increases, making it calmer, and the function of the prefrontal cortex, which controls rational judgment, weakens. In other words, it is a magical time when vigilance is relaxed and emotional barriers are broken down.

If you receive a first message like “Are you awake?” or “How was your day?” during this time, it is clear green light evidence that they are thinking of you in their most private space at the end of the day.

2. Quality of Late-Night Conversations

During the day, when people are busy with work or school, KakaoTalk messages are exchanged mainly for survival and information exchange. On the other hand, the topics of conversation in night KakaoTalk become deeper.

• Confessing Weaknesses or Worries: If you start sharing honest feelings such as stress in relationships or self-deprecation via KakaoTalk, which you would never do during the day, it means that ‘Self-disclosure’ has begun between the two of you.
• Intimacy increases in proportion to the weight of the secrets shared together.

3. ‘Drunk’ KakaoTalk to Watch Out For (After 2 AM)

However, you should be wary of emotional, long KakaoTalk messages that suddenly pour out after midnight or after 2 AM on weekend mornings.

• If you rarely hear from someone and suddenly get a message like “What are you doing?” every Friday night, it is highly likely that it is a temporary ‘impulse’ relying on loneliness or alcohol to find an emotional trash can (or other purpose). 🗑️

Analyze the content of the conversation considering the time. Sharing everyday life via KakaoTalk that continues without interruption between 10:30 PM and midnight, when the mind is clear and reason and emotion are properly fused, is the healthiest and most perfect signal of a budding relationship. 💖